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Delete Report Edit Lock Reported. Respond to Anonymous:. Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters. Kamilla22 Send a private message. I would like to say i was tubby but really i was fat And i always wondered why does a super fit guy love me or finds me attractive! By asking myself that question, it opened my eyes to see that there are a lot of fit guys out there with bigger women.
I honestly think, this embarrassment is kindda like a western mentality, where women have to look a certain way to viewed as sexy, if you dont then you are not and men fall into that trap. Sad really. Kamilla22 : Thanks for sharing. I've been accused of shaming men for even asking. It seems strange that in some guys still don't feel comfortable going for what they want. I guess you are right, maybe it is too much to admit they like that body type. Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. Anonymous : I wouldnt have time for idiots honestly esp those who think you are shaming men coz of this and feel sorry for the guys who feel under pressure to hide their feelings about this.
Kamilla22 : Also some guys are made fun of this by their friends or the people around them so you can understand their need to keep a relationship with a big woman on a low low, for example, look at the comments which say you sre shaming guys. Its a messy situation coz then their pride gets hurt and then they get upset for their gf, its long. Fitcc Send a private message.
Kamilla22 : My friends did make fun of me a little early on but when they realized I seemed serious about dating fat girls the teasing subsided. I have also had an ex who sometimes contacts me on FB. She makes fun of me for having a fat wife.
Laugh it up. I like having a fat wife. Fitcc : No sense at alll. My first bf dumped me for a girl that Only serious bbws need reply his type, the typical, tall, blonde with big boobs and ended up marrying her, now they are breaking up. My current bf has the hots for this one girl, reason why he partly feels this way is yes, she is attractive but its fueld by what other ppl think which further solidifies his attraction which is stupid, that means you cant think for yourself and if anything did happen between them, yes i would be hurt but i would mostly lose respect for that person coz you have just showen to me that you dont have a brain that thinks for itself, its pathetic.
You like what you like go for it. Be your own person dont be a follower, ppl will end up respecting you for that. Kamilla22 : And oh yeah just to add on, i watched an interview with john cena, where they asked him " the big question" if he ever went out with big women and he proudly said on air that he went down on one big woman and that he doesnt discriminate. There you go, supet muscular guy and very good looking saying that.
Kamilla22 : It's sad! I am seeing that now that I am back out there dating. I date attractive guys too, but I'm shocked at how many let others dictate how they should feel or who they should be attracted to. It's Anonymous : Id hate to say this but i ended up in a relationship with a guy that in my point of view is very much influenced by what others think or what society is telling them how to think and feel.
Im with him now coz i love him but trying very hard to change the way he thinks. Really all aspects of sex are just better with a big woman. Going down though Going down on my wife is just as rewarding as putting my penis in her. I'm not judging saying it's right or wrong but I think it's more than that Hiero, it's about being made to feel ashamed to be attracted to them by societies standard and really liking them behind the scenes. Yes, there are chubby chasers who have that fetish, and while it's not a healthy lifestyle maybe they just like her personality.
There's a lid for every pot as they say.
I just replied to him too. There seems to be such a negative bias against curvy women for some reason but you are right there are so many guys who secretly love curves. I was just trying to understand why guys hide what they like Why don't men just live out what they really like instead? Thanks for your perspective. Anonymous : I do believe it is the pressure to conform that prohibits the men who like bigger women from coming out of the closet.
Maybe with age? I have a friend that is a bigger girl and she works exclusively around men, there are quite a few that talk the talk but very few that want to step up and make that leap, she's pretty too so who knows. There is one right now who just wants to be a FB and have it be a secret, and a couple more who can't decide.
Edited on February 21, at UTC by the author. My ex recently moved back to his hometown so we are not together anymore but we met in my gym and he is an amateur bodybuilder so definitely a fit guy. Even though he is in his mids, he never tried to hide our relationship. It just seems odd to me and I think guys who do that are sad. Myownman Send a private message. Anonymous : I don't think guys hide what they like I know plenty of men that love thick curvy aka fat women most of the men I kno personally like hat I'm the only one that likes skinny chicks.
Nearly all my friends are married to women that look like Jello shots or pudding cups. Not me I want something fit and firm. I dated a fat girl one time because she had the cutest face like an angel but I couldnt get past those rolls and stretch marks. We never had sex I just got head from her alot.
Myownman : Ok that makes sense! If you are just not attracted to a BBw, I get it totally. I was just really curious about the guys who are attracted to us but try to hide it from the public. Thanks for your perspective! Hierophant Send a private message. That outward image people see is a direct result of a commitment to that lifestyle.
And for that sugar loving grease stained couch potato to claim the fit person is in denial of their attraction to them or shallow for desiring someone more like themselves - is ridiculous Now there might be Only serious bbws need reply small minority of chubby chasers out there but nothing people should be holding their breaths for You want a fit person in your life? Then be one yourself and you bound to attract a likeminded person.
Hierophant : Ok. Lots of presuppositions about BBWs. I am actually healthier than my skinny friends. My body type is just naturally curvy is all. I am attractive, not lazy or any of the other stereotypes associated with BBWs. My point is that I get a lot of hidden interest from men but they are too shy in public to go for what they really want. Why is there such a negative bias from men when curves is really what some want?
Only serious bbws need reply just wanted to understand the contradiction. Anonymous : You need to understand how the terms curvy and BBW have been hijacked by the obese people Hierophant : Thanks. I am actually ok and have plenty of dates. But being newly single, I have also found a of guys who seem to be shy about going out.
I have high self esteem and would never take that from a man. I just really wanted to understand why a guy would care so much about what other people think. Hierophant : I agree with your response very much and your post is coming from a very mature point of view. Sadly there are many and many out there who hide it coz of how it would make them look so i guess they are just immature.
I feel lucky to be with her in fact. Fitcc : Thanks for your perspective! Do you think the hostility towards BBWs will ever change? I have skinny friends who some are very unhealthy but they never seem to be judged.
I left a toxic relationship with a conventionally hot woman and it was around that time I slowly started opening up to dating fat women. For me they were just better. To your question I think there will always be some stigma to being fat and to a lesser extent, being a guy who dates or marries a fat woman. Fitcc : Wow thanks for sharing your perspective! I have very high self esteem and when a guy try's to fat shame be with my healthy sexy body it can be frustrating. I just don't get why there is so much anger towards BBWs?
I mean everyone is attracted to different types. Pineapple Send a private message. Society is geared around the average.Only serious bbws need reply
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