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Before I became a dating coachI worked as a matchmaker. Many women often wonder what men are looking for in women and relationships, and working as a matchmaker has allowed me to see some common trends.
Men are very visual creatures. This is the one thing that my clients stress the most when they are talking to me on the phone. I distinctly remember one of my first clients turning down all my match suggestions because they were too thin.
If you ever find yourself doubting your appearance or feeling insecure, always remember that real people often have a wide variety of tastes. Someone to go to dinners with, someone to travel with, someone they can go bowling with.
Women often put the cart before the horse when it comes to finding a romantic partner. They are looking for someone who has a good job, is interested in marriage or wants to have. I agree with the women in that both partners should have similar goals, but this should come later. Others have said it different ways such as:. Although this is purely anecdotal, I feel like men are missing that sense of love and caring in their regular lives. Women often have their best friends, sisters, or moms to talk to about the important stuff.
They can talk about their feelings, hug each other and cry in front of each other with little judgement. So when it comes to finding a romantic partner, men are really looking for that romantic and nurturing connection. They want someone who can hear their problems, struggles and insecurities.
Learn more here. That being said, they nearly always want someone who is ambitious and independent. I personally think that many men are happy to be the providers or the breadwinners. They just want to know that their hard earned money is going towards supporting your goals, not your shopping addiction. This is one that I found really surprising, yet is a common theme among many of my clients. What men look for in women is someone who is able to have fun. We women know for a fact that we are more mature than our male counterparts if we are speaking in general terms.
We like to take charge, get things done and be assertive. Most men either act this way themselves or experience this when they are at work with other men.
What my clients really want is a life partner who is going to do things with them. A person to share their life with.
I try to tell my clients this and to make them have an open mind about how they date. So what can we learn from my matchmaking clients? Why is it important for us to know what men look for in women? I have a friend who got seriously mad at her long-term boyfriend because he bought the wrong color sheets. I have another friend who made a huge scene in a restaurant because her boyfriend glanced at another woman as she walked by the table.
Therefore, it was refreshing reading an honest article about what men find attractive. Author Recent Posts. Lana Otoya. Lana is a professional dating coach. She helps confident and successful women meet confident and successful men. Latest posts by Lana Otoya see all.Professional man for any woman
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